Why Letting Go Of The Ring After Divorce Matters
OK so you’ve shut the door, left the man, got a place of your own and moved on, but have you fully? After spending some time with Judy Herbst, Brand Spokesperson for Worthy.com, the one thing women tend to hang onto she said is their wedding ring. This of course holds them back from the very thing that they are seeking, freedom and true love.
You think you should keep it – you went to the store, selected it and paid good money for it, or perhaps it was a family heirloom and it has some sentimental value. Yes your marriage was an important chapter in your life but it’s time to say “No” to the ring. Your wedding ring is an emotional trigger of a marriage gone wrong.
Considering that 95% of what we do in life is chosen by the subconscious mind, which is made up of past experiences and our old belief system, your wedding ring could be holding you back from finding Mr. Right. Your conscious mind says, “I’m ready to move on and create a magical life of my own, with an amazing man by my side.” But something just doesn’t quite seem to line up to make that happen.
The missing piece often overlooked is energy. Everything is made up of energy; it surrounds us, we can’t see it most of the time, but it’s there, a vibrational frequency that attracts like kind. So every time you look at or touch that wedding ring it triggers emotions inside of you whether you realize it or not. If you were here in front of me, I would muscle test you for a positive thought and a negative thought. When you see how much that negative thought controls you there will be no more hesitation in giving up your ring. That’s right your wedding ring has energy that could be holding you back, a vibrational frequency that’s causing you to be out of alignment with what you are truly seeking.
Think of it like music on a radio station, you can’t expect to listen to classical music if the dial on the radio is tuned into rock and roll. Just like your ring, you can’t expect to have a great relationship with someone else when you are hanging on to the cobwebs of the past. So what can you do? Turn the dial, realign to the vibration, your inner belief frequency so you can obtain what your conscious mind is wanting, a new loving relationship. Get rid of the old negative triggers and replace them with happy memories.
So what are you waiting for? What’s the emotional reason for why you are holding on to the ring? Stop tying to defend or justify why you should keep it, or obsessing over what is right or wrong, instead see the possibilities in what you will gain from getting rid of the ring; financial gain, less clutter, another thing off your to do list, an opportunity to buy something for yourself, there are so many freeing possibilities. You are the only one who has the power to move forward. When there is fear and resistance, the path of life you are seeking won’t unfold, you block it and fog it all up by holding on. So let go of what no longer serves you. Release the ring it’s feeding your history not your destiny. It’s time to open yourself up to flow.
One of the hardest things to do in life is letting go of what we thought was real
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